Separation and Divorce Checklist

Parenting Plan

  • Access to Information & People:  Educational and medical records; Teachers, doctors, etc.
  • Medical Emergencies: Decision-making, notification, legal consent
  • Daily Schedule: Children's living arrangements for a typical week
  • Holidays:  Secular and religious holidays, birthdays, reunions
  • Vacations:  Summer vacations, winter and spring breaks, travel
  • Transportation:  Pick-up and drop-off arrangements
  • Parental Change of Residence: Restrictions, notice to other parent
  • Decision-Making (legal custody):  Major decisions about education, medical treatment, religion, discipline, safety
  • Renegotiation:  Periodic review of plan, building in flexibility
  • Conflict Resolution:  Structure for settling any future disputes


Division of Property

  • Full Disclosure: Gathering and sharing of financial information and documentation concerning all assets and debts
  • Procedure for Division:
           • Identification
           • Valuation
           • Marital vs. Non-Marital
           • Division
  • Some Categories of Assets:
           • Household Furnishings
           • Vehicles
           • Other Personal Property
           • Bank Accounts
           • Accounts Receivable
           • Stocks, Bonds, Funds
           • Real Estate
           • Life Insurance
           • Business Interests
           • Pensions, IRA, 401(k), etc.
           • Patents, Stock Options, etc.
  • Some Categories of Debts:
           • Mortgages
           • Bank Loans (e.g., car loans)
           • Loans on Life Insurance
           • Personal Loans
           • Credit Cards


Child Support & Alimony

  • Budgeting:  Children's expenses and parents' expenses
  • Income:  Identifying all sources
  • Child Support:  Calculating basic support level, school tuition, extraordinary medical expenses, childcare expenses, camp fees
  • Alimony:  Amount and duration
  • Adjustments:  Cost of living, changed circumstances


Other Financial Issues

  • Medical Insurance
  • Life Insurance
  • College Tuition & Expenses
  • Taxes
           • Joint or Separate Returns?
           • Dependency Exemptions
           • Dividing Refunds & Liabilities
           • Alimony vs. Child Support